To be honest, I’ve thought about my wedding before – but only in bits and pieces. There’s the general idea where I know I want a sort of big wedding – not too big – but it’d be nice to have a large gathering. I also know that I really would like my wedding to be outside. I’ve always sort of pictured it outside on a sunny day (I know that part is practically impossible to plan that far in advance). So I guess these are the other things I would love to see in my actual wedding (if I’m dreaming, might as well dream big, right?):
I looked at so many photos, and honestly, there’s quite a few options I would choose. A lot of it would really depend on what would overall look best on me when the day comes. But, here are a few ideas I really like!
One thing that I love is the idea of having a dress that’s not white, but more of a champagne, creamy color. Standard white dresses are beautiful, but I like the idea of being a little more unique.
I’d probably opt for having some sort of updo, but again, it’ll depend a lot on the dress and when the wedding is set. Right now, I’m thinking updo.
I’m really leaning towards cerulean blue, white and gold as my main colors. It’s an idea I’ve been playing around with.
Additional Wedding Ideas
All in all, there are a ton of things I could do with a wedding. I just haven’t fully thought this through yet – maybe because I’m nowhere near ready to get married. At least not quite this soon. There is going to be a day when I’ll go to plan this out and probably wish I had spent a little more time thinking about it. I’ve seen so many pretty dresses, and beautiful ideas and colors for so many weddings – just looking up some ideas. I don’t even know where to begin! My ideas may change by the time I’m ready to get married. Time will tell!
Honestly, though, the important part about a wedding isn’t the pretty dress or the fancy details, or how many people show up. It’s about the person you are marrying. So, to me, my dream wedding really would be fulfilled if I’m walking down the aisle and marrying my best friend, and the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Because that’s why people get married, right? You fall in love and you can’t picture your life without this other person. My dream wedding would be to have this, and to be with a man who’s going to be true to me, as I would to him.
The wedding is supposed to be a celebration, I’ve had friends who’ve stressed over it, not just because of money, but because of their family, especially parents. I don’t want that. It’s unwanted drama. It’s my wedding, the only other person who’s opinion matters on that would be my future husband. I just want a night I’ll always remember.
November Writing Challenge #6